Midnight report
July 10, 2008 – 12:25 amI don’t have my email address book here at the hospital, so I’m posting this request to the site, in hopes that some will be up late and read and then PRAY.
Unfortunately, around 6:30pm, Eli’s anesthesia had completely worn off to the point of excruciating pain to his back. The doctors gave him morphine through his IV which gave him some temporary relief. He insisted I lie in the bed with him, so down I went, confined to the same grueling horizontal position as Eli. For several hours he would be in and out of sleep, with random muscle spasms to his back that put him into an intense episode of pain. It absolutely amazed me at how brave he was being. He would do this sort of “lamaze” type breathing until the pain subsided (with absolutely no coaching by me- he must have picked it up when I was pushing him out of my womb just five years prior). By then he was terrified that someone was going to touch the bed, move, or breath close to him and that it was going to hurt his back. Finally, with much persistence, we found a new cocktail of medication to hopefully stop the spasms. After holding the laptop in a uniquely awkward fashion so he could watch a Caillou for a while, I finally decided I had to get up. So after five hours of the horizontal hell, Ray and I switched places and I emptied my bladder and put on my PJ’s. Now Ray is snoring so loudly that the cocktail must be working, because Eli is snoozing soundly.
So, if you get this in the night, please pray that the pain would subside and that Eli would get restful, continous, uninterrupted sleep. Pray that the nurses will be carefully attentive to his pain management and that we will be discerning in how to comfort Eli and gracious as to how to communicate with the hospital staff.
One more thing….during one of Eli’s spasms, as he was breathing deeply, he looked at me with tears in his eyes and said “Everyone is praying for me, right?” I thought I was going to completely lose it. But I said, “absolutely” and then started praying louder over him. It comforted him.
Love,
Angela
4 Responses to “Midnight report”
Dear Ray and Angela,
Just wanted you two to know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers today. Eli, is such a great kid and you are right he is so brave. I know that his two big brothers are very proud of him . I hope that you have found the “perfect” pain cocktail for him so everyone can get “some” rest while in the hospital. Thanks for sharing the updates and praying for all of you.
Susan Jarrett
LifeWay Music Service
By Susan Jarrett on Jul 10, 2008
We are definitely praying for the little guy.
Let us know if we can help in any way.
Luy ya much,
Aunt Sandra
By Sandy Freeze on Jul 10, 2008
To brave little Eli,
We are praying for you and hoping that you are feeling well today, that your pain is more managable. I pray that you will be able to rest today and I know you will be up moving around soon. I am picturing your sweet smile and know that the Lord is watching over you.
Love from the Anderson’s
By Stacey on Jul 10, 2008
We were praying for Eli and you two also last night. Hope things are better today.
By the MaGuirks on Jul 10, 2008